Marry on
Saturday - It's a Good Day for a Wedding
by
Jennifer
Cram - Brisbane Marriage Celebrant ©
20 July 2019 |
Days of the Week |
There
is no question about it. Saturday is the most popular
day for weddings in Australia by a long chalk. So,
clearly, marrying couples are cheerfully ignoring that
old rhyme
Saturday for no luck at all
As well you should, because there is absolutely no
evidence for such a belief.
Why we call it Saturday
If you look at older beliefs and traditions, and delve
into the history of why we call the the first day of the
weekend, Saturday, there are many
positive, relevant, and interesting reasons for
choosing to marry on a Saturday. (Until recently, most
Australian wedding ceremonies took place around 3 pm on
a Saturday, 75% of them, in fact. Latest figures have
that down to 56%.)
The Babylonians knew of only five planets, so they named
five days after them, and tagged the other two days
after the Sun and the Moon. The Romans adopted the
practice when they standardised on a seven day week
(used to be 8 days in the Roman week, how confusing was
that?)
Taking their lead from the Babylonians, they named what
we call Saturday for the heavy-duty planet Saturn, and
therefore after Saturnus, Roman god of fun and feasting,
whose festival,
Saturnalia, held between 17 and
23 of December, celebrated the harvest and sowing.
This festival have influenced some of the customs
associated with later celebrations in western Europe
occurring in midwinter, particularly traditions
associated with Christmas. Planetary influences suggest
that Saturday will be influenced by Saturn's stability
and solidity, which makes it a great day for entering
the contract of marriage and starting the process of
building a strong foundation for your life together as
well as a day marked by fun and feasting.
A fun reason for getting
married on Saturday
The Vikings did not name the day after a Norse deity
associated with Saturn, so what we call the day reflects
the Roman name. For the Vikings, Saturday it was the day
you do the washing (Vikings were very clean), so in
Danish and Norwegian, Saturday is
lørdag,
in Sweden it is
lördag, while in Icelandic it is
laugardag - all meaning
washday! So it's
a great day for a clean start!
Benefits of having your
wedding on a Saturday
Saturday is the most expensive day of the week on which
to be married. Everything, particularly if your wedding
is in the afternoon and evening, is going to be a
premium price. Nonetheless, budget and availability of
your dream venue and dream wedding service suppliers
permitting, it is a great day to choose because
- It usually the most convenient day for you guests
- It is a very good day if travel is involved for
your guests
- Fewer people will need to take annual leave, and
those that do will be able to take less leave than
if you were marrying on a weekday
- No-one will be keeping an eye on the clock because
of having to go to work the next day, so you can
party on late into the evening
- Fewer people will decline the invitation
- Couples with children will find it easier to find
childcare
Thanks for reading!