Signing the Marriage
Register and the Certificates
by
Jennifer
Cram - Brisbane Marriage Celebrant ©
(06/08/2018)
Categories: | Wedding Ceremony | Wedding
Legals |
The Marriage Act requires that the Marriage Register and
Certificates are signed as soon as practical after the
marriage takes place, that is, after you have made the
statements to one another that create your marriage.
Generally speaking, the signing takes place towards the
end of the ceremony, after the pronouncement (which is
traditional but not a legal requirement) and kiss (again
traditional but optional) and just before the closing
words, presentation of the certificate, and you heading
off back up the aisle.
Three important things to remember about the
signing
out
- The register and certificates must be signed by
the marrying couple, then by their two official
witnesses, and last by the Celebrant.
- Everyone signs using their usual signature
(which means that, if one of you is going to take
the surname of the other, this is the last time you
will sign using your previous name)
Hint: the signatures on all three of the
marriage documents must match
- The signing is a major focus for the photographer,
so the choreography of how you move to the signing
table and how you arrange yourselves at the table is
important, as is allowing time for the photographer
to formally pose you for best effect.
Pens
Like most celebrants, I bring an elegant pen that you
can use for the signing. But if you want to use a pen
that is special to you, you need to know the following:
- As with all legal documents, the ink used should
be black.
- Many wedding supply places sell fancy pens for the
purpose, but many of them are provided with blue
ink, and some have ink of very poor quality
- If you’re tempted by the ostrich feather plumes be
careful about their height – feathers brushing
across faces during the signing can cause sneezing,
and obscure the faces.
- If you choose a fountain pen make sure that the
ink you use is waterproof
- Test all pens thoroughly – not just a scribble to
see if they do write, but a reasonably protracted
piece of writing to make sure they don’t smudge or
drop clots of ink.
Signing table
While there is nothing illegal about signing the
register on your lap, somebody else's back, propped
against a tree, or on the kitchen bench, having a nice
table to sign on does enhance the experience and the
photographs.
Most venues supply a table with cloth and chairs.
However, if your ceremony is being held at home,
in a hall, or in a public space such as a park you will
need to ensure there is a signing table and preferably
two chairs, though one will work, as will just standing
bending over to sign (as long as your neckline isn't too
low to do that without giving the photographer and
everyone else an eye-full).
The bouquet, if there is one, will be sufficient
decoration during the actual signing (another cost
saving). In addition, the bouquet doesn’t carry with it
the risk of drenching the certificates that a vase full
of water does. Couples often style the signing table
with a photo of a deceased loved one. We can also put
the items used in a ritual on the table - handfasting
ribbons/cord, for example.
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