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The Legal Vows are not really vows at all. For the simple reason that they don't include any overt promises.

BUT, they are the all-important declaration that each of you makes during your civil (celebrant-led or Registry Office) marriage ceremony. They are the words that create your marriage. Once you have both said them, you are legally married.

Nonetheless, this declaration, sometimes explained at a contractual statement, includes 3 words that say everything without making a single promise.

Take

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As in "I, [Full Name] take you [Full Name] ...."

Take is an active verb, an action you initiate. So saying I take you confirms your free and willing consent to the marriage. It also clearly establishes your personal responsibility for your choice.

Lawful

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"... to be my lawful ..." confirms that you understand that from then on your partner will be  your legal or legitimate spouse because you were united in a legal marriage. 

Wedded

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"Wedded" means married - and "Wedded wife/husband/spouse/partner in marriage" leaves no doubt about the relationship.

But we also use the word wedded in a wider sense, which is also applicable -  joined, connected, united. So it tells the world that you freely unite yourself to your partner for life.

Related Information

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• Why it is Lawful Wedded, not Lawfully Wedded

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