- You only need three things to
make sure that you have a happy and successful
naming ceremony for your child.
ONE: A skilled (and experienced) celebrant whose
schedule fits yours
TWO: a relaxed and happy baby, and
THREE: an environment that is comfortable for your
guests.
All it takes to achieve that combination is a bit of
juggling!
If you are at the stage in your parenting journey
that you are considering organising a naming
ceremony for your baby you already know that your
child's personal schedule is unique, and that it
doesn't always align with yours!
You'll already know that there are certain times of
the day that your child is more sociable, more
alert, and more amenable to the sort of activities a
naming ceremony involves Which largely
means being clean, being rested, and not being
hungry. But at other times of the day is highly
likely to be grumpy and demanding and anything but
cooperative.
Choose a good start time
for the ceremony
out
The secret to a successful naming ceremony often
comes down to choosing the right time. Babies are
often at their social best mid-morning or early
afternoon. But not every baby keeps to the same
timetable. So your primary consideration should be
to choose a start time for the ceremony that fits
your child's personal feeding/sleeping/sociability
schedule.
Other issues you should also take into consideration
may include
- The Temperature.
As most naming ceremonies are held outdoors,
either in the backyard or a convenient park, it
is wise to choose a time that sidesteps the
hottest part of the day. You should also look
for shade over both the ceremony area and where
your guests will be standing or seated.
- The Light
One thing that definitely happens at naming
ceremonies is that everyone takes photos. So
choosing a time of day when the light is best
for photos, regardless of which type of device
is being used, steer clear of the middle of the
day. In Queensland, the morning light is softer
and really good for outdoor photos.
- Guest work and sporting commitments
Choose a ceremony day that
suits everyone
out
For obvious reasons, most naming ceremonies are held
at the weekend, with Sunday being the more popular
day, though certain public holidays are also quite
popular. Australia Day, for example.
Just bear in mind that Saturdays are popular for
weddings, so it might be more difficult to book a
good celebrant at short notice. You also need to
take your guests work commitments into account,
given that many people now work at the weekend.
If there is one thing I've learned in naming more than
300 children it is that a naming ceremony must always
be conducted on "baby time". You must build enough
time into the schedule of activities (for example,
when lunch will be served) to allow time to pause the
ceremony to tend to your child's needs (or the needs
of another baby present), if necessary. Whether the
baby needs changing, feeding, or generally soothing,
this should be able to be done with minimum stress. I
always have a few tricks up my sleeve to keep your
guests engaged and occupied while we pause the
ceremony.
It may be that, if a whole raft of reasons, the only
day/time that you can schedule your child's naming is
one I'm just not available for. Don't worry, I've got
that covered. Talk to me about a DIY ceremony option.
That's the one where I create the ceremony and provide
a full script and coaching so one of your friends or a
family member can lead the ceremony on the day. You'll
find information about my naming ceremony services at