Have you dreamed of
getting married on a tropical island, surrounded
by palm trees and white sand? Or in a romantic
castle in a far-off land?
A destination wedding can be a magical way to
celebrate your love and tie the knot, but they
come with some unique challenges, not the least of
which can be navigating the legal requirements
both at home and abroad and dealing with the fact
that, for your guests, your destination wedding
can be expensive and inconvenient.
On the plus side, destination weddings are a great
way to sidestep pressure to adhere to
traditional wedding customs and practices, and to
spread cultural awareness and appreciation.
So sit back, grab a
piña
colada, and come with me as I explore the pros and
cons of both legal and non-legal destination
weddings.
But
first, the legal considerations
Add
Generally speaking, Australia recognises the
marriage when Australian citizens or residents
marry in other country, as long as your marriage
complies with Australian laws around marriages. In
other words:
- You are both at least 18 on the day of the
wedding
- You are not closely related to one another
by blood or adoption
- You are both free to marry, that is, not
married to anyone else
- You are freely and willingly consenting to
the marriage
So yes, your destination marriage will be
recognised, but that's not the only thing you
need to consider
- While your marriage will be recognised, it
won't be registered in Australia, therefore
you won't be able to change your name "by
marriage". You will need to change your name
legally, which is a challenge in itself:
- While changing your name "by marriage" is
free, a legal name change has to be applied
for and paid for, and there can be a
considerable waiting period
- It has some residence conditions attached
- There are limitations on how often you can
change your name
- It retrospectively changes the name on
your birth certificate
- There could well be a long list of
additional legal requirements for marrying at
your destination. These can involve
- Having to apply for a special visa to
allow you to enter the country for the
purpose of getting legally married
- Being required to live in the country,
region, or area for a period of time before
the wedding
- Medical requirements, like certificates or
blood tests
- Additional paperwork
- Religious requirements
None of the above would be a concern if you are
planning a non-legal or symbolic wedding, which
many people do,
choosing to
marry legally here in Australia first.