Jennifer Cram, The
Inclusive Celebrant:
My Commitment to Diversity and Inclusion
by
Jennifer
Cram - Brisbane Marriage Celebrant ©
(09/01/2021)
Categories: | Celebrant |
I
believe with my whole heart that all people are worthy
and should be equally valued and treated with equal
respect.
Using
Jennifer Cram The Inclusive Celebrant allows
me to spell out my values as succinctly as possible
without hiding my identity.
What embracing diversity
means to me
In common with all Commonwealth-registered marriage
celebrants (with the exception of those who have
chosen to be classified as
Religious Marriage
Celebrants, which I definitely am NOT), I
must comply with Australian Federal and State laws.
Which
means no unlawful discrimination and no indemnity or
permission to discriminate. But that's not good
enough! The letter of the law doesn't require
that each and every person, regardless of who they
are, where they come from, what their culture is, or
who they love, is supported and above all,
appreciated.
I want every per
son I provide services for to know that
they are both respected and appreciated, which means
I
welcome everyone, couples and singles, with open
arms.
"
Jennifer, we chose you because you default to
awesome and leave out the gender bias, religion,
over-explanation, tasteless jokes, awkward vows and
dreary biographical readings that I've experienced
in other weddings. - Tony and Leslie."
To spell out the detail, for me embracing diversity
means
- I acknowledge the traditional custodians of the
land on which I live and work, together with the
many different nations who are custodians of the
land and waters across the wider Brisbane region.
I pay my respects to the elders, past and present,
as the holders of the memories, the traditions,
the culture, and the spiritual well being of
Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples
across this state.
- I welcome, support, and celebrate people
- of all races, all religious beliefs, including
no belief, from all countries of origin,
regardless of your visa status
- of all gender identities and sexual
orientations
- of all body types, sizes, appearance, and body
art
- of all ages
- of all educational levels and backgrounds
- whether neurotypical or neurodivergent
- regardless of your type of relationship,
individual abilities. disabilities, or state of
health
- I welcome your children, both human and fur kids
- I respect and support your language preferences
and facilitate your use of the language(s) you are
most comfortable with
- I provide a range of ceremony packages to suit
all budgets
However, I may choose NOT to
work with you if ...
- You are controlling, rude, or attempt to use
bullying tactics to induce me to breach the law
- You are dismissive of my role or my skills and
experience
- You ask me to deliver a ceremony that expresses
values that are disciminatory
- You are not committed to the process
What ensuring inclusion
means for me
Inclusion means, quite simply, doing my best to make
sure you feel comfortable, valued, and respected. To
this end I make every effort
- to use inclusive language
- to use your pronouns (mine are she/her)
- to be respectful
- to encourage you to share your knowledge and
experience with me
- to be open about my values and to listen to your
thoughts and opinions with an open mind
- to be honest and ask for your input when I am
unfamiliar with aspects of your culture, beliefs,
or lived experience
- to call out bullying and hate speech whenever
and however I come across it
- to ensure that my website, my socials, my
office, and the ceremony spaces in which I work
are safe spaces for all
- to ensure that couples are not excluding from my
services on grounds of affordability
Spelling it out
I will joyfully officiate both legal and non-legal
ceremonies for
- same-sex couples
- interracial couples
- intercultural couples
- non-binary couples
- transgender persons
- intersex persons
- divorced persons
- May-December couples
- interfaith couples (yes, in a civil ceremony in
Australia you are allowed to express your own
personal spiritual or religious beliefs and I will
facilitate that if you wish)
- couples with limited resources
The question of Vaccination
Status
Valuing people equally does not allow me to preference
the wishes of any one person over the safety of
another. Therefore I comply with all Health Directives
regarding Vaccinations.